Trusted Advisor for conscious leaders

Authentic power in action

Personal guidance for authentic international leaders ready to lead with presence, clarity and true authority.

You don’t need to work harder to become more effective

You’re experienced, intelligent, and successful. And yet, you feel there’s more. More clarity and vision on how you want to lead with purpose, influence with integrity, and live with intention.
Many of my clients find themselves at a turning point, in a phase of transition or perceived stagnation.

  • The applause has faded. Now what?
  • Leading from authority, not control, how does that work?
  • I work hard, but every day looks the same, I feel stuck. Where is the challenge?
  • I want to grow without losing myself.

That’s where I come in, offering clarity, presence and strategic depth as your Trusted Advisor.

You don’t need to work harder to become more effective

You’re experienced, intelligent, and successful. And yet, you feel there’s more. More clarity and vision on how you want to lead with purpose, influence with integrity, and live with intention.
Many of my clients find themselves at a turning point, in a phase of transition or perceived stagnation.

  • The applause has faded. Now what?
  • Leading from authority, not control, how does that work?
  • I work hard, but every day looks the same, I feel stuck. Where is the challenge?
  • I want to grow without losing myself.

That’s where I come in, offering clarity, presence and strategic depth as your Trusted Advisor.

Why leaders work with me

I see what others overlook. I recognize your uniqueness, your quiet strengths, your potential, your deep knowing. Through honest reflection, sharp insight and powerful questions, I help you unlock new perspectives and activate the leadership that already lives in you.

With a background in organisational psychology, governance, and cross-cultural leadership, I bring both depth and clarity to our conversations. I advise on complex strategic matters and help you navigate what’s happening beneath the surface, in yourself, your role, and your environment.

Through this training you will:

  • Know your personal leadership style and learn to act situationally
  • Feel confident, smile and stay strong
  • Navigate complex dynamics with clarity
  • Lead with presence, without needing control
  • Influence with authority, not with force
  • Grow into roles where your full Mastery becomes visible
  • Develop your vision and strategic thinking
  • Be heard and held in a safe space. In silence, I listen beyond words

Why leaders work with me

I see what others overlook. I recognize your uniqueness, your quiet strengths, your potential, your deep knowing. Through honest reflection, sharp insight and powerful questions, I help you unlock new perspectives and activate the leadership that already lives in you.

With a background in organisational psychology, governance, and cross-cultural leadership, I bring both depth and clarity to our conversations. I advise on complex strategic matters and help you navigate what’s happening beneath the surface, in yourself, your role, and your environment.

Through this training you will:

  • Know your personal leadership style and learn to act situationally
  • Feel confident, smile and stay strong
  • Navigate complex dynamics with clarity
  • Lead with presence, without needing control
  • Influence with authority, not with force
  • Grow into roles where your full Mastery becomes visible
  • Develop your vision and strategic thinking
  • Be heard and held in a safe space. In silence, I listen beyond words

My approach

Especially in moments of professional change, such as career transitions, promotions, and sensitive exits, I can support you early on. I’ve guided many leaders through these turning points, helping everyone move forward with dignity and clarity.

If I sense that someone else is better positioned to support you, I will refer you with care and integrity.

“Deep, spacious conversations create room for conscious leadership to emerge and evolve”

1.

Open free conversation

We start with an open, pressure-free conversation to get to know each other. We take time to explore your question, your context and your intention.

2.

Personal meeting or follow-up

If we recognise the potential and value of working together, we look at what is needed to begin. This may include a personal meeting or a follow-up online.

3.

Align expectations and collaboration

If the situation is more complex, a second conversation may follow, for example with someone from your Board or HR. We align expectations and explore how we could work together.

4.

Clear proposal

Once we’re aligned, you’ll receive a clear proposal outlining our collaboration. Sessions take place online or in-person at exclusive and quiet locations.

High potential development

Identifying, nurturing and retaining high-potential individuals is one of the most valuable investments an organisation can make. These are the people who carry the future and yet, true potential often remains unseen. Personal bias, internal politics or limited HR capacity can cloud decision-making. With my extensive experience in recognising, selecting and developing high-potential professionals, I support organisations in unlocking the leadership that’s already present. The result is not just stronger succession, but a culture where talent thrives and governance matures.

“I thought I needed new skills. What I really needed was to stand in who I already was. Ellen helped me see that, and act from it.”

What others say

Due to the confidential and high-level nature of my work, testimonials are not shared publicly with names. If you’d like to speak to someone I’ve worked with, I will gladly connect you personally for a reference.

“I stepped into my role with confidence, in a remarkably short time.”

“I stepped into my role with confidence, in a remarkably short time.”

Just over a year ago, I began my role as a board member. While I knew the theory — thanks to my background and education — this position demanded something else from me: to stand firmly in my high heels and apply my influence differently, both within the organisation and the wider region.

It was incredibly valuable to have Ellen by my side. Especially in this politically sensitive context, she guided me in developing the right leadership style and competencies. Together we worked on a clear vison and strategic plan for the organisation.
Last month, I received a wonderful compliment from the Supervisory Board “We knew you would grow into the role eventually, but the way you stepped up so quickly deserves all the respect — you’re doing a fantastic job.”

That compliment felt like a clear confirmation of the growth I had gone through. The fact that I now stand confidently in my role is in no small part thanks to Ellen’s support and wise guidance.

Participant Training Trusted Advisor

Three years ago, I was introduced to Ellen through a colleague and asked her to support me in preparing for a CIO position within our international organisation. The collaboration was intense, personal and deeply enriching. Ellen guided me through the entire application process, and although there were twelve strong candidates, I was offered the role.
Because I experienced how valuable our collaboration was, Ellen has remained my sparring partner and trusted guide. It’s a gift to spend a day with her, in the stillness and nature, I reconnect with myself. Her questions and reflections can be confronting, but I always return home with fresh insight and a long list of ideas.

The Executive Board also recognises my continuous development — we are already discussing my next step. I’m now being considered as a potential successor for a future position on the board.

Participant Training Trusted Advisor

“She remains my sparring partner — especially now, as I continue to grow.”

“She remains my sparring partner — especially now, as I continue to grow.”

Frequently Asked Questions

Simply book a no-obligation intake via the Align page. We’ll arrange a personal conversation as soon as possible to explore your question and see whether a tailored programme would be valuable and meaningful. Many clients find that this first exchange already brings clarity and new perspective.
You can begin at any time. Often, the moment you start considering it, is the moment you’re ready. We will find the right starting point together, and if needed, we can start quickly. Especially when timing is essential, we make it a priority to move forward without delay.
Yes. We can add sessions, for example for interview preparation, assessment training, or deepen the coaching according to your needs.

Additional alignment and internal consultation with the organisation is often helpful and sometimes even necessary. Think of situations such as a team or board development process.

That depends on your goals and availability. Most of the investment is in the sessions themselves. We schedule these in alignment with your rhythm. We work with real cases from your daily leadership practice, so learning and implementation happen simultaneously and meaningfully.

By working more efficiently, we actually create a gain in time.

You are welcome at my office at Kasteel Vosbergen in Heerde, or we can meet at another inspiring and quiet location. Online sessions are equally possible. And if walking in nature helps you reflect more clearly, that too can be part of our conversations. Working on location, both within the Netherlands and internationally, is also possible in consultation, and sometimes even desirable, depending on the context.

I’m available by email and WhatsApp. I encourage you to reach out between sessions, a quick reflection or check-in can often make a big difference.
Payment terms are flexible and aligned with our agreements. If your organisation is supporting the programme, we will make arrangements together early in the process.